on the mat is a state of mind
It will find you eventually, so sit tight and stay ready.
Something I say a lot: Things change. People come and go. Life moves on (if you let it).
Keep;ing up wtih my ex on facebook probably isn’t such a good idea, but I have finally realized that he is no longer the person I dated when we were twenty two. We are both different now. His new girl is the right person for him and hopefully, he for her, and just because I haven’t found my person yet doesn’t mean that a) I’m less happy than they are. b) there’s no one out there for me or c) that anything happening to them has anything to do with me. They have their life, I have mine. Separate. I can choose to be happy for them, or I can not. Just as I can choose to be happy for myself, or I can not.
I have my own business. I have great friends. I have a sweet dog and a loving family. I have plenty to be happy about.
I’m also about to load up my car and head to the mountains for the weekend to hang with my friends, and THAT definitely = Happy.